An Orphan's Prayer

An Orphan’s Prayer
I am waiting...somewhere far...far...away on the other side of the world. I may not know who you are or what you look like, but some how deep in my heart I know you are out there. That one day you will come and find me. It's a long journey,and it takes a lot of time... I wish it could be easier. But I know that the ones who come for me will not count the cost. They will only see the joy of finding me. For now I abide in the fields of the fatherless. Day by day wondering why I was born here and not somewhere else? Asking....why my life couldn't have been different.

It is so lonely...Even though I am surrounded by hundreds of other children, I know something is missing... I know in my heart I need a place to call home. My arms long to be wrapped in a father's embrace..I long to be saved by a mother's love...

Gazing out the orphanage window I offer a prayer of hope,"Oh, God, please help them come quickly." Even as I lay there in the darkness each night somehow I feel assured, that no matter how lost I appear I am not alone,

Holy hands guard my steps, sacred fingers wipe my tears, touching my lonely heart. The one who made me, the God that knew me before I was born, hears me every time I call. He whispers his promises in my ear. I listen with hope to His voice.

But what I worry about most is that no one wants to look for me. The fields are vast and there are so many scattered all over the earth. I wonder how one little child, so lost can be found?

Yet he calms my heart and assures me,that He will find you. That he will make sure that you hear His voice clearly. He has promised me that He will make a way through the fields. That he will personally cut a path,and lead you right to my orphanage door.

My prayer is... When he speaks... Please don't forget to listen... When he calls don't be too afraid to go. For I am waiting somewhere, far,...far...away, on the other side of the world... TO COME HOME.

This poem was taken from the adoptive magazine "All God's Children"

The Mission!

As we’ve started down this road to launching an orphan ministry, we have realized the need to focus on three clear objectives. We feel that clear objectives are easier to work towards and accomplish. The three areas that the orphan ministry at Southgate will focus on are as follows:

1. Providing waiting orphans with loving families by financially assisting adoptive couples through adoption grants.

2. Assisting families in the adoption process through support and education, resources and whatever needs might arise. This could include walking alongside families in the adoption journey, providing support, encouragement & practical help, etc. before and after their adoption.

3. Mobilizing individuals, communities and churches to care for orphans and help raise awareness.

Number two and three seem pretty self explanatory, but I’m sure you may have questions about number one! There are a few different types of adoptions, which we will get into in later posts. There is international, local, private and adoption through the foster care system. Depending on which path a family takes, the costs can be extremely high and a significant barrier to the family adopting (costs can be as high as tens of thousands of dollars for an international adoption). Those who are not familiar with the process may easily become frustrated or disheartened with the costs associated with adoption. While many families have room in their hearts and homes for a child, they all too often become discouraged and do not answer the call to adopt due to monetary concerns. We feel strongly that cost should never be a barrier to a child finding their forever family and this is where the financial assistance comes in.
There are a few ways that financial assistance can be structured. Here are some of the options that the Southgate ministry will pursue:

1. Straight Grant- an adopting family applies for and receives a grant valued between $2,500-$3,000. This money is administered to the family at the appropriate stage of adoption, as determined by the pre-set criteria. There is no responsibility to repay this grant.

2. Matching Grant- based on the funds available, the adopting family is offered a matching grant, matching dollar-for-dollar every dollar THEY raise up to a maximum of between $2,500-$3,000. Sources have shown that a matching grant typically raises an additional three times the original matching grant amount. For example, if a $3,000 matching grant is offered, on average, an additional $9,000 will be raised, giving the family $12,000. This also allows the friends and family of the adopting family to get involved and be a part of the process.

3. Adoption Loan- an interest free or low-interest loan is offered to the adopting family to cover the costs of adoption. An affordable re-payment plan can be worked out, using the tax credits the family will receive as a result of the adoption.

Please feel free to ask questions about any of the topics or ideas we present in this blog in the comments section and we will try our best to answer them!

Why Orphans?

If you have read our first blog entry, you may be wondering....why orphans?  Why has this cause gripped our heart so much?  Here is a snip-it at why God has given us a huge burden for these precious ones...

When we look at the great social issues of this century – poverty, hunger, HIV/AIDS, child soldiers, and trafficking – there is a common link, the orphan. By stepping in to prevent, delay and rescue orphaned children, we can break these cycles and change more than just the number of orphans.

Today there are estimated over 143 million orphans in the world.Although not all of these children are available for adoption, they are in need of care.  The sad reality for so many orphans is that they are unloved, overlooked and forgotten.

This is a crisis, involving so many who are exceedingly precious to the heart of God.  In response to this need, we feel that God’s call to the church is clear: for believers everywhere to rise up and find creative solutions – saving lives one by one. 

And we are ready to rise up to this challenge!

The Children of the World... current statistics:

In the world today there are 143 million children who have lost one or both parents.  That is almost one half of the population of the United States.

Every 14 seconds an Aids death leaves another child orphaned.

Every year 12 million children become orphans.

87.6 million Orphans live in Asia.

43.4 million Orphans live in Sub-Saharan Africa.

12.4 million Orphans live in Latin America and the Caribbean.

In Ukraine and Russia 10%-15% of children who leave orphanages commit suicide before age 18.

There are 30,000 waiting children in Canada, through the Foster Care System.

We believe that the Church is the answer that will change the lives of these children forever. The Bible mentions caring for widows and orphans over forty times. In fact, the Bible says one measure of our faith is whether we care for widows and orphans in their distress (James 1:27). Because God cares for orphans, he wants us to care for them as well.

Churches are the most influential source of care and support. As the distribution center for hope in a community, the local church is best able to identify needs and support interventions for orphaned and vulnerable children in every community.

We are a part of the body of Christ, and God has asked us...what are we doing about this global crisis?  What is our part to play? Perhaps this blog can serve as a challenge to you...

Have you ever thought....what is your part to play?